ok so today i was bored (as usual) and a friend suggested a website where one can chat with random strangers all over the world. so i went to the website and guess what i found. a whole bunch of random strangers looking for sex. like almost everybody i met was interested in only sex, sex and more sex. obviously it was more guys than girls who said stuff like “wanna have sex tonight” or “wanna f***” but there were women also.. or maybe they where just 50 year pedophiles. who knows.
anyway, the point is, what is the big deal with sex. and more surprisingly why are so many people looking for it online…. with RANDOM PEOPLE. okay, i know its fun and it feels bloody good blah blah blah… but there is a global and frightening obsession with sex. yeah m sure that sex with strangers is fun and mysterious and exciting… but on the internet?????? really???? guys, why don’t you grow those balls which you proudly brag about and go talk to a REAL WOMAN. and maybe behave nicely and get laid. and GIRLS, i’m sure those among you who are desparate for sex dont need advice on how to get it…. (given how almost every man on earth is horny 97% of the time)
i wonder… could it be, despite all the skepticism, that sex is indeed just a form of intimacy? that its not as baseless as internet freaks make it look like. yeah sure its a good time, and yeah sure sex with strangers is no strings attached, no responsibilities, just pure wild fun. but is it possible that underneath all this so called hedonism is a core of human need for companionship? could it be possible that a person experiences such loneliness that even that five minutes (and thats too much for most men :P) if intercourse brings you close to another person? connection with another soul in the great sphere of life? i am by no means a purist who believes in sex after marriage or sex with THE ONE (heck unless you try how would you even know who is THE ONE) but i want to believe there is more to this world than just plain ….. debauchery??? greed??? lust??? i dont know how you would put it…
but then again, looking for the good in humans is now sorely overrated. maybe the world is indeed morphing into a bunch of morons who are so desparate that they are happy with a fake picture of a girl with silicone implants, the words of probably some one whose grandpa joe in some far away country, and making themselves happy following the “right hand rule”… maybe thats just how the world works.